God is the only one who can change someone. Leave it in his hands.
I honestly don’t really know what to say about this. You might think how is this motivational. This is motivational, because it’s reminder that on your own you aren’t capable of making positive change and being “good enough”. However, God has had a plan for your life since before you were born and he is Love. Allow him to be your leader, your friend, and make the changes in you that you never could on your own.
I’m sorry my way of explaining it isn’t the best.